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Catch your breath and ask me out 

Before reaching out, make sure you've read my rates and date ideas.

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 Are you buzzing with anticipation? You don't need to be a great writer when inquiring, but you do need to communicate clearly so I can get a clearer picture of who you are.  In your message please tell me a few basic things:

• A little bit about yourself

• When you want to meet

• How many hours

• Where you want to meet

• Ideas you have in mind for a date

• If you have any special needs or a disability I need to be aware of.

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For inquires that are missing this basic information or use crude language, I am unable to respond. I generally respond within two days. If you don’t hear from me within that time, check your spam folder.

More Questions

 

How will you be dressed on our date?

 

I love an excuse to dress up, especially for upscale dining and the theater (dresses, heels and sexy enough to turn heads but not raise eyebrows.) If we’re doing something more casual I will be dressed appropriate (I can also rock hiking boots, hoodies and neon yellow rain coats-- the PNW classic grunge look ; ) If there’s a particular outfit or something you'd like me to wear, let me know what you have in mind and I’ll do my best to accomodate.

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Do you need to know any personal information or screen me before we meet?

 

You can share as little or as much as you like, I don’t need to see your ID or get references. Before we meet in person, I’d like to have a brief phone call to say a quick hello and break the ice. 

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How do you feel about PDAs?

 

As far as public displays of affection, I like eye gazing, holding hands and long sincere hugs, those are my boundaries for intimacy if I feel it in the moment. I also respect if you don’t want any touch, I don't want either of us doing anything that makes us feel uncomfortable. But just a reminder, I’m not coding any language—I am not offering any sexual services. 

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Are you vaccinated?

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Yes, I have all my COVID boosters flu shot for 2023. I also take extra precautions when traveling.

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Can we do any activities in a private setting?

 

Possibly on our third date we can fly your private jet for a whirlwind dinner date in New York (I’ll make reservations at Le Bernardin and get us tickets to The Philharmonic.) But for now, I am a strictly an only-in-public adventure girl for my safety. For those with privacy issues and can’t be seen in public with me, we can have an intimate dinner date over Zoom and talk about anything you desire.

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Can I date you off the clock? 

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I think there's a app called Tinder for that sort of thing?

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Can I bring you a gift?

 

I love presents! Especially if it’s something you treasure and want to share. If you need some ideas, I collect art and architecture books and I'm a plant mom always looking to adopt more.) I have a wish list too. Gifts are lovely but not required to have a great time.

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