Melissa Joy dates
Catch your breath and ask me out
Before reaching out, make sure you've read my rates
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Are you buzzing with anticipation? I'm curious about you too, so let's start with an ice breaker virtual date and see if we're a fit!
Good Questions
How will you be dressed on our date?
I love an excuse to dress up, especially for upscale dining and the theater (dresses, heels and sexy enough to turn heads but not raise eyebrows.) If we’re doing something more casual I will be dressed appropriate (I can also rock cycling shorts and clip-in shoes, hiking boots, hoodies and neon yellow rain coats-- the PNW classic grunge look ; ) If there’s a particular outfit or something you'd like me to wear, let me know what you have in mind and I’ll do my best to accomodate.
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Do you need to know any personal information or screen me before we meet?
You can share as little or as much as you like, I don’t need to see your ID or get references. Before we meet in person, I require a phone or video pre-date hello.
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How do you feel about PDAs?
As far as public displays of affection, I like eye gazing, holding hands and long sincere hugs, those are my boundaries for intimacy if I feel it in the moment. I also respect if you don’t want any touch, I don't want either of us doing anything that makes us feel uncomfortable. Remember, we're on a first date, so l expect both of us to show up and be the best version of ourselves.
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Are you vaccinated?
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Yes, I have all my COVID boosters and flu shots for 2025. I also take extra precautions when traveling by plane.
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Can we do any activities in a private setting?
On our third date, let's fly in your private jet for a whirlwind dinner date in New York (I’ll make reservations at Le Bernardin and you get us tickets to The Philharmonic.) But for now, I am a strictly an only-in-public adventure girl for my safety. For those with privacy issues and can’t be seen in public with me, we can have an intimate dinner date online and talk about anything you desire.​​
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Can I just ask you out on an old-fashioned date?
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By 'old-fashioned', you mean where we 'go dutch' and you don't pay me for my time?
Isn't there an app called Tinder or Plenty of Fish or Waste of Time for that sort of thing?
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Can I bring you a gift?
I love presents! Especially if it’s something you treasure and want to share. If you need some ideas, I collect art books, local vintage jewelry, and gift cards are always in style.. Gifts are lovely but not required to have a great time.
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